When we are attracted to a girl, we will observe what she does, what she says, what she likes... We care about every move she makes. If you are interested in a girl and want to pursue her, but the girl is not very interested in you, she may not even be aware of your efforts, which will definitely not work. So how should you pursue a girl who is not interested in you?
1. Don’t make mistakes when chatting
Before chasing a girl, there will definitely be a period of chatting, which is not only a time to understand each other, but also a time to deepen the impression. But girls don’t care much about you. At this time, you have to pay more attention to chatting and not to get offended. A boy told me before that he didn’t mind my weight. He was really angry...I didn’t want to talk anymore in an instant. If a girl The child is not even willing to chat with you anymore, which means there is basically no hope of catching her. If you can have a pleasant chat with a girl, it is very likely that the girl will change her mind about you and become interested in you.
2. Make more sense of presence
If you are good at chatting with girls, then you should do more Meeting each other increases your sense of presence. After all, just chatting can't deepen the relationship. You can show your presence in front of her and let her know who you are. It is best to make people around her mention you and praise you more.
Secondly, be yourself in front of her. You have to perform your best, especially when it comes to dressing up, making yourself look more handsome, then being considerate and paying more attention to small details. It's best to ask her out on a regular basis and find excuses that are hard to refuse. To put it bluntly, you can attract her if you are good at something, and then increase your presence, but during this process, boys must remember to sit back and lick the dog.
3. Keep the relationship balanced
When pursuing a girl who is not interested in you, The most taboo thing is that you chase after her blindly and the girl rejects you blindly. In this way, the relationship will be unbalanced and it is very likely to fail. This is a typical situation with a pair of friends. Although we were not optimistic about it at first, their relationship now is stronger than that of many couples who are in love. I think the most important things for a boy to succeed are the following:
1. Respect girls’ opinions and have a good sense of scale (rarely do anything extraordinary to embarrass girls)
< p> 2. Know how to use the pressure of public opinion. At that time, there were several boys who liked that girl (and the girl had a crush on one of them), but that friend was the first to confess his love to the public, and tried hard to prove his goodness to the girl's good friends (emmmm...actually I don't I like this approach too much, but it really works)3. Retain your dignity. At the end of the chase, when you are really only one step away from falling in love, you must pay attention to adjusting your position. This boy is verySmart, in the end, he adjusted his attitude in time and worked hard to make the originally deformed relationship slowly become equal (I think this is the key reason why their relationship can last for so long)
< p style="text-align: center;">In the end, it is really difficult to pursue a girl who is not interested in you, because sometimes no matter how hard you work, you may not change. Her inner thoughts, I am not trying to suppress your confidence. It’s okay if you don’t believe it, but if you do believe it, I hope you will work hard to improve yourself and become better, so that you can take more advantage of this competition. Advantages, making it easier to find girls who like and admire each other.
